About Autistic traits in women
- Natacha Martins
- Jan 22, 2025
- 2 min read
Majority of the research that can be found on Autism traits was founded on the study of young white boys. The important thing to remember is that, despite what the societal structures would like you to believe, the world does not revolve mainly around white boys. There are A LOT more variety amongst the human population, including those of us on the spectrum. The thing with human beings being unique in their genetic, mental, and environmental structures is that we present a lot of variety in our being, expression and, in terms of Autism, our traits. Which is why we shouldn't all be tested or seen under the same lens as young white boys. And thus, it is important to make sure that other groups of people be looked into and studied also. For example, women, being emotional and expressive creatures, present our Autism rather differently. And thus, let us discuss the traits that women often exhibit.
These traits though common does not mean they occur always for every Autistic woman.
Common appearance/personal traits in Autistic women
Due to textures and comfort, she may prefer to dress more practically than stylishly.
Spends less time on grooming and hair.
Camouflages socially and may lack sense of identity.
Usually more expressive than Autistic males.
Retreats into special interests such as books, TV or movies.
Eccentric personality and/or appearance.
Manages stress with rules, discipline and routines.
Preferences, appearance and tastes seem young for her age.
Most happy when at home or in an environment that they can control.
Demonstrate an aversion to what is popular, what is feminine, or what is fashionable.
Show different sides of her personality in different settings.
May have androgynous traits with feminine appearance.
Common Intellectual/Vocational Traits in Autistic women
Often musical, artistic
Overt or covert learning deficits
Considered “gifted”, shy or sensitive at a young age
May have many self-taught skills
May have savant skills or a strong talent
May be highly educated but struggle with social aspects
May have special interests that are less obvious than those of an Autistic male
May have trouble staying employed or finding work
May often change quite quickly from course to course despite being very passionate
Sensory issues or cognitive difficulties may cause slow processing or comprehension
May gravitate towards computers, technology, writing, languages or psychology.
Prefers written rather than verbal demands and instructions
Common Social/Relationship Traits in Autistic women
Words and actions are often misunderstood
Usually thrives more in social situations when dealing with one person at a time
Perceived to be cold natured or self-centered
Doesn’t go out much or prefers to go out only with a handful of trusted people at a time
May prefer spending time with animals
May not do many “girly” things or have many female friends
May shutdown in social situations when overloaded but is better at masking than Autistic males
May choose to remain celibate or alone. If in a relationship takes it very seriously
May appear socially skilled but it’s often a performane
Due to sensory issues, may thoroughly enjoy sex or strongly dislike it
Can be awkward in flirting attempts
Can have trouble maintaining close friendships
May get fired up when talking about passions or special interests
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